Words to My Son: On the Threshold of Middle School

30 Aug 2024
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Ann

Giving My Son His First Phone Feels Like a Trap

The world shimmers with a different kind of light when a child reaches a milestone. It's not just the confetti and proud smiles, the culmination of years spent learning their ABCs and multiplication tables. It's the sudden awareness that they stand taller, their eyes reflecting a dawning comprehension of the wider world. As you, my son, graduate elementary school, I find myself looking back at blurry snapshots of your journey – the first nervous steps into kindergarten, the triumphant grin holding up a handmade Mother's Day card, the way you tackled long division with a furrowed brow and the quiet determination I've come to cherish.

This letter, my dear boy, isn't just a graduation card. It's a conversation whispered across the bridge you're about to cross. It's a tapestry woven with threads of my hopes, my fears, but most importantly, my unwavering belief in the young man you are becoming. In the grand tapestry of life, elementary school might seem like just a few threads, but they form the very foundation upon which you'll build everything else.

Remember the time you stumbled learning to ride your bike? Scraped knees, tears welling up – you wanted to quit. But you didn't, did you? You got back on, pedaled harder, and felt the wind in your hair as you finally rode free. Life, my son, is very much like learning to ride a bike. It will throw challenges your way, moments that make you want to give up. But the true measure of a person isn't in avoiding falls, but in the courage to get back up, dust yourself off, and keep pedaling towards your dreams.

Middle school will be a whirlwind of new experiences, new faces, new subjects that spark curiosity. Embrace it all. Don't be afraid to ask questions, to explore unfamiliar paths, to discover passions you never knew you had. Remember, learning isn't confined to textbooks and classrooms; it’s a lifelong adventure waiting to be had. Be kind, be curious, and most importantly, be true to yourself.

As you navigate the choppy waters of adolescence, remember the values we've instilled in you – empathy for others, integrity in your actions, and the courage to stand up for what's right, even when it's hard. These values, my son, are your compass, guiding you through life's twists and turns. There will be moments when you feel lost, unsure of which path to choose. Listen to that quiet voice within, the one that whispers of right and wrong, of kindness and courage. That voice, my son, is the echo of your own true north.

In the tapestry of your life, I am but a single thread. My role is to love you unconditionally, to support your dreams, and to gently guide you when you falter. But the masterpiece you create, my son, is yours alone. Paint it with bold strokes of courage, kindness, and an unquenchable thirst for knowledge. And know that through it all, I am here, cheering you on every step of the way. Congratulations, my son. Go forth and make your mark on the world.